How to use a G Spot Vibrator

Ladies… We all know how important it is to fulfill our intimate life. And though having a partner or self-pleasuring is great, sometimes we want a little extra.

That little extra may just be a G-Spot Vibrator . These vibrators, though they may seem intimidating, are very easy to use - both alone and with a partner.

To be honest, you don’t really need a guide on how to use a G-spot vibrator. However, we’re going to give you one.

You might just be curious, want to show your partner, or perhaps just want to know a little extra about this type of toy. Whatever it may be, the following will help.

1. First, learn the controls of your G-spot vibrator.

2. Secondly, arouse the body using foreplay.

3. Once aroused, apply lube to the vibrator.

4. You can then insert the toy and use movement to find the G-spot.

5. You can find the G-spot by inserting the toy with the curve facing upwards.

6. If internal stimulation isn’t your thing, use it externally.

7. And if it ever hurts, just stop. Try again later or with a smaller toy.

The G-spot, which is named after its finder, Ernst Gräfenberg , is a sensitive erogenous zone (an area of the body that’s pleasurable to touch) located in the vagina against the wall closest to the stomach.

As you can see from the diagram below, it’s slightly inside the vagina, 2-3 inches, around the pubic bone and urinary bladder.

Unlike other sensitive erogenous zones on the body, like the clitoris, it isn’t an anatomical structure. In fact, it only appears and becomes sensitive when the body is aroused, and the clitoris is erect.

Well… As you can imagine, a G-spot vibrator is designed to stimulate the G-spot. Typically, they’re short in length (just enough to reach the G-spot) and sometimes look like a dildo - just without the balls! Oh yeah… And it vibrates!

There are many reasons why you should be using a G-spot vibrator. Some of these include the following:

1. Easier to Stimulate

When it comes to the G-spot, some people have a really hard time finding it, especially with a partner. However, with a dedicated tool, it makes it much easier.

2. Multiple Use Cases 

G-spot vibrators aren’t only for the G-spot. They can also be used to stimulate the clitoris, offering multiple ways to enjoy the toy.

Alongside this, many women like to alternate between the G-spot and clitoris, mainly because of the vibration feature on the vibrator.

3. Squirting (If You’re into That)

Plus, if you’re into it, it can also increase the chances of squirting. And no, it isn’t pee. Though chemically similar to pee , it’s very different and much less gross.

Using a G-spot vibrator is very good for squirting because of its vibrating feature. As it vibrates, it hits the urethral sponge, encouraging it to ejaculate and release fluid.

Though squirting isn’t for everyone, maybe it’s something you want to try. It can be a great addition to an orgasm toolkit, plus it’s a fun party trick for the bedroom.

Now you know a little bit more about the G-spot and a G-spot vibrator, here’s a step-by-step guide on how to use one:

1. Test the Toy First 

Once you’ve received your G-spot vibrator, test it out and see how it works. Don’t start using it; just get used to it, learn the controls, etc.

The last thing you want to do is learn while “In the act.” It can take away from the enjoyment and, most significantly, make stimulation much harder.

2. Start Foreplay 

Above, we mentioned that the G-spot isn’t an anatomical structure. It only appears when the body is aroused, and the clitoris is erect.

Because of this, foreplay is very important. Everybody is different when it comes to stimulating this, so do what feels pleasurable.

The main goal here is to kind of “Wake” the entire genital area up, just like you would before intercourse or something like that. You need to “Get in the mood”; don’t rush.

3. Use Lube 

As you know, the vagina itself self-lubricates. However, where you’ll be targeting, the frontal wall of the vagina isn’t, so applying lube is usually always needed.

PRO TIP: Many women like to pair water-based lube with a silicone G-spot vibrator .

4. Include Movement 

A G-spot vibrator itself doesn’t do all of the work. Ultimately, you (or your partner) need to find and stimulate the right areas.

Move the toy in and out, leave it resting on the g-spot, rest it on the clitoris, etc. Just move it around to whatever feels nice. It’ll help stimulate your entire body and your G-spot.

You can even move your body or try different positions. Remember, everybody is different, so see what stimulates you the most.

5. Find the G-Spot 

When you’re stimulated, you can then search and try to stimulate the g-spot. With the toy, insert it into your vagina and insert it so the curved side is facing up towards your belly button.

If you’re properly stimulated and have found the G-spot, rest the toy on there, move it about, change the vibration settings, do whatever feels good for you, and just enjoy the ride!

6. Figure out What You Like 

If internal stimulation isn’t “your thing,” don’t worry. You haven’t wasted your money. Just use the toy elsewhere, such as the clitoris.

A lot of the available G-spot vibrators actually work just as well on the outside of the vagina as the inside, so give it a go.

7. If It Hurts, Stop 

If internal vibration or penetration starts to hurt, stop. It shouldn’t bring pain. It should bring pleasure. Therefore, just stop if it hurts. It isn’t nice, so why continue?

Perhaps move back to foreplay before continuing with internal vibration. This could sort the issue; if the pain remains, try a smaller toy.

If you’re interested in buying a G-spot vibrator, you’ll be glad, or not so glad, that there are a ton of different options.

Because of this, we’ve taken a look at our shop, Muf , and have found some different types of g-spot vibrators based on the type of user.

Type of User	Features to Look For	Product Example
Beginner	Curved Shaft, Body-Safe Materials, Moderate Size, Multiple Vibration Settings, Easy-to-Use Controls, Affordable Price	Butterfly Kiss Vibrator
Experienced User	Advanced Vibration Patterns, Larger Size, Stronger Intensity, Ergonomic Design, High-Quality Materials	LELO Soraya Wave Deep Rose
Budget-Conscious	Affordable Price, Battery-Operated, Durable Materials, Basic Vibration Settings, Easy Cleaning	Gossip G-Thrill G Spot Finger Vibe
Tech Enthusiast	App Connectivity, Remote Control, Multiple Vibration Patterns, Rechargeable, Advanced Features	Lovense Lush 3.0 Sound Activated Vibrator
Traveler	Compact Size, Battery-Operated, Discreet Design, Quiet Operation, Splashproof or Waterproof	Satisfyer Double Plus with Remote
Couples	Remote Control, App Connectivity, Multiple Vibration Patterns, Ergonomic Design, Waterproof	Kiiroo OhMiBod Esca2 Interactive Vibrator
Discreet User	Quiet Operation, Small/Compact Size, Discreet Design, Rechargeable or Battery-Operated, Waterproof	Romp Reverb G-Spot & Clitoral Suction Stimulator

Of course, cleaning and storing your beloved G-spot vibrator is very important. It’s hygienic and keeps it fresh for the next time you use it. Here’s how you do both:

1. Wash & Rinse 

Because of the material used to construct a g-spot vibrator, they’re pretty easy to wash. Most of the time, you just need to clean it with warm, soapy water or use a sex-toy-specific cleaning spray .

PRO TIP: Read the instructions for the toy before cleaning. Some non-waterproof toys may get damaged and require a specific cleaning process.

2. Pat or Air Dry 

If you’ve washed and rinsed it, you need to dry it. You can either do this with a clean towel or leave it out to air dry. Whichever option is fine. No option is better than the other.

3. Store in the Container (or a Clean Bag) 

Once dried, you should store it in a dry, clean container.

Most high-quality g-spot vibrators come with a container, usually a plastic container or a cloth bag. If your one comes with one, use it to store the vibrator.

If not, however, just place it in a container or a clean bag. It’ll work in the exact same way.

4. Charge for the Next Time 

Perhaps not after every use, but every maybe 3-5 uses, put it on charge. The last thing you want is to run out of charge while it’s hitting just the right spot.

For those using a G-spot vibrator with a partner, this is for you. And trust me, ladies, your partner will find the G-spot with this (finally).

1. Do Your “Normal” Business: Have a date, light some candles, or put on Netflix. Do whatever you normally do with your partner to “get in the mood.” 

2. Start with Foreplay: Start with foreplay; both you and your partner take turns, enjoy it, and stimulate each other. 

3. Lubricate the Vibrator: Once ready, lubricate the vibrator. 

4. Get into Position: If it’s your first time, try different positions, missionary or spooning, for example, and see which one feels best. 

5. Insert & Locate the G-Spot: When in position, get your partner to insert the vibrator and gently move around the G-spot area to stimulate it (you can also help them).

6. Use Movement & Different Vibrations: Once it starts to feel good, get them to start moving it around and try out the different vibration levels available. 

7. Enjoy: Most importantly, enjoy the experience, both you and your partner. 

After reading the above, you should know how to use a G-spot vibrator. Not only you but your partner also.

With a G-spot vibrator, it isn’t hard. It’s actually really easy, which is why they’re so popular. So why not give it a try? Take a look at our G-Spot Vibrators today.

Want to learn more about the G Spot? Check out our G Spot Ultimate Guide.