G-Spot Ultimate Guide: What is it? Is it real? And how to find it.

Have you ever wondered whether the g spot is real or just a myth? Spoiler alert! It's real, and we're about to spill all its little secrets.

That's the good news.

The bad news, is not everyone has them, and even fewer enjoy G-spot orgasms regularly. The mysterious g spot presents challenges preventing you from experiencing its yummy goodness.

For starters, what exactly is the g-spot?

Let's find out!

Orgasms are on most people's "favorite things" list, with good reason. A healthy routine coupled with regular orgasms does the body good—including reducing stress levels, improving your skin health, and making you feel euphorically good.

That's the good news.

The bad news is not everyone has them, and even fewer enjoy one of the best orgasms—the g-spot orgasm. The mysterious G spot presents challenges preventing a yummy release.

For starters, what is the g spot? Well, the answer is a bit tricky.

To figure it out, we have to go back to its beginning, or at least the beginning of awareness about it.

It wasn't until 1981 or 1982 that the "g spot" was named. It's believed that a nurse and sex counselor named Beverly Whipple and colleague Alice Kahn Ladas named the g-spot after sexual reproduction expert and German-born physician and scientist Ernest Gräfenberg.

Beverly, however, is rumored to actually be the one who discovered the g-spot by using the "come hither" motion inside the vagina—creating a surprisingly positive physical response.

All praise Beverly!

Seriously, she "discovered" that the soon-to-be-named g-spot is the secret to penetrative orgasms.

But to be clear, the G spot isn't its own thing. It doesn't exist somewhere outside the vagina or in some elusive outward plane.

A 2017 study put that idea to rest.

So, what is it?

As it turns out, the g-spot is part of your clitoral network. Instead of only the pea-sized button in between the inner labia and where they meet, the clitoris is divided into two "roots" that can extend up to 4 inches!

Like all aspects of the reproductive body, this area is unique to each person.

Yes! The g-spot is real. It's just not a separate, mystical part of female anatomy. 

Some ladies find the g-spot to be a super sensitive place that requires a delicate touch. Most discover it becomes enlarged when you're turned on. It should feel slightly like an orange peel.

For many, the g-spot serves up intense, incredibly powerful orgasms when properly stimulated, and yes, some even get excited enough to "squirt" during orgasm.

But don't worry if you haven't experienced a g-spot orgasm. Many haven't! It's totally okay if you're just starting your g-spot journey!

In English, the g-spot is also known as the Grafenberg spot . It's used to refer to the erogenous part of the vagina that can cause life-changing orgasms and extremely powerful sexual arousal.

You'll find it about an inch or two inside the vaginal opening on the upper vaginal wall—opposite the clitoris, close to your belly button.

Laying down, it's on the top wall of the vagina.

Can't find it?

Don't stress.

Some g spots are a bit higher, and others are closer to the vaginal opening.

Most women find theirs about a third of the way up in their vagina. The g spot location is hard to find because it's different for each person, but you can search in this general area to find yours.

How to Find The G Spot

Wondering how to find the g spot in all its glory?

Use your fingers.

But start by warming yourself up. Place your hands on the outside of the vagina, feeling the labia and gently inserting your fingers inside.

Explore the upper inner wall of the vagina palm up, making a "come here" motion with your finger.

How do you know when you've found it?

Because it will feel slightly different in texture from the rest of the vagina, for some people, the g-spot is pulled back in the fold, so it may take more exploring to find.

If you feel nothing at all—don't fret. That's totally normal!

Some people won't. You could also suddenly feel the urge to hit the toilet for a quick pee because the G-spot is located right next to the urethra.

As long as you enjoy the experience, it's a pleasurable treasure hunt.

How to Stimulate the G Spot

Now that you know where the g spot is and how to find it, what's the best way to get friendly with it?

Here are a few tips to turn your g-spot into your "oh, god, YES" spot:

Tip #1. Foreplay is your new best friend. 

Foreplay is so important in sexual exploration, even with the g-spot. Start by relaxing your mind and body in a safe environment. Recognize that this race is about endurance and that there is no rush to the finish line. The more aroused you are, the easier it is to stimulate the g-spot.

Tip #2. Remember to tell your g-spot to "come here."

If you're using your fingers, or your partner is, toss out the standard "in-and-out" thrusting motion and swap it for a "come-hither" motion. Curving your finger(s) slightly upward with a tapping motion often produced the best results.

Tip #3. Bring the lube. 

All sex exploration is easier with lube. It decreases friction and lets you explore without fear of a rough ride. Whether you're using fingers or a g spot dildo, don't forget to grab your favorite lube before you start.

Tip #4. Pick the right position.

If you're trying to find your g spot, try laying on your back and inserting your fingers palm up. Standing up or sitting in doggy style isn't the right place to start your journey. Use your fingers to stimulate different areas to see what feels best.

Do G Spot Vibrators Work?

G spot vibrators can be just what the doctor ordered for g spot stimulation. Most of them are wand-like in shape and feature a slight curve for easier g spot stimulation.

Just like a clitoris vibe, a g spot vibrator enhances the physical sensations you experience in all the best ways.

A g spot vibrator usually doesn't have a separate component to stimulate the clit, like other dildos and vibrators out there.

Also, you'll notice they aren't as long because they don't have to be. Some g spot vibrators are also waterproof. So, check yours before you upgrade your bath toys.

Learn more about how to use a g spot vibrator.

The primary difference between g-spot vibrators is that they are specifically designed to stimulate the g-spot, and dildos are designed for in-and-out penetrative action.

Other ways they differ include:

• Dildos don't offer stimulating vibration

• Dildos require a partner or physical movement to work

• G-spot vibrators have batteries and internal components that serve up an array of stimulating options

• G-spot vibrators can be used on the vulva, nipples, or wherever you like

We're not throwing any shade; dildos can be loads of fun on their own. But if you want to stimulate your g-spot in the best ways possible, get a g-spot vibe.

Sometimes it's not about finding the gspot. It's about "hitting" it just right. There are a few sex positions that make this process easier. So, let's explore a few positions that give you more control over your movements for the best chance at g-spot stimulation.

These positions can be explored solo, partnered, with or without a toy.

Doggy style is a great way to go deeper. It makes it easier to control the angle you hit, too.

Assume the position by getting on your hands and knees with your partner behind you. As they penetrate you, try leaning onto your forearms more or pushing your hips backward to change up the way he penetrates your g-spot.

You can even try a prone position by laying flat on your stomach with your legs hanging off the edge of the bed, enabling your partner to move in and out from there.

Let your partner lie on their back, then climb on top to straddle them. The best part of this position is that you're in complete control of how they hit your g-spot—including the rhythm, angle, and depth of penetration.

Pro Tip : Move back and forth instead of up and down to hit your G spot. But the best way to move is the way that feels best for you, so experiment!

Yes, missionary can get you to your final g-spot destination. It works because it allows for greater stimulation without deep penetration.

Try a twist on missionary by moving your legs together once you're in missionary. Your partner's legs should be on either side of yours, creating oh-so-heavenly friction on your g-spot.

With your partner behind you using gentle, shallow thrusts, they can hit the G spot pretty quickly. When you're being penetrated in this position, try lifting your leg in the air until it feels just right.

What if you've never experienced a G-spot orgasm and want to know why you should care? The good news is, any orgasm is a good orgasm.

But if you're in the mood to try something new or want to see what all the fuss is about, we'll break it down for you here.

Before we do, please keep in mind that your body is unique. What feels good for someone else may not feel as great for you. Be patient and enjoy your exploration for the best experience.

Now that that's out of the way, here's what you need to know.

Yes, G spot orgasms feel different from a clitoral orgasm.

A g spot orgasm tends to feel more intense than a clitoral orgasm. It often requires more patience and time to achieve, too. But some ladies experience one simply through heightened arousal and penetrative sex.

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Clitoral orgasms are like an instant shot of espresso—quick, intense, and oh-so-delicious.

Just a little external stimulation on the top of the vulva, and you're in for a rapid build-up and a powerful, concentrated burst of ecstasy.

They are typically easier to achieve with or without a partner, thanks to the clit's high sensitivity and external location.

G-spots "o's," on the other hand, are more luxurious and more like a slow-brewed latte than a shot of energy. They're all about that internal magic.

The result is a deeper, more diffused sensation that builds up gradually with varied stimulation.

Yes, they require more exploration, but that's many people's favorite type of exploration.

The G spot is not an organ. It's simply an internal part of the clitoris.

We've debunked this myth, but to reiterate, the G spot doesn't exist independently of the clitoris or other parts of the body. It is a part of the larger reproductive body.

Not necessarily. What feels good for one person might not be good for another. You know your body, so while we highly recommend exploring the G spot, there is no such thing as a bad orgasm.

False. There is only one "g Spot" inside the vaginal wall on the underside of the clitoris. To enjoy the best climax, play around with any area that offers sensation, but remember, only one place takes you to O-town.

Thanks to the misconception that the G-Spot is deep inside the vagina, many people believe it can only be stimulated by penetrative sex. That's the opposite of reality. Shallow strokes often feel best because they stimulate the g spot.

What if you could find the g-spot and make it easier to stimulate? There's an injectable for that.

Labeled as G-spot amplification (GSA ), you can now inject collagen into your G-spot. The collagen used in the shot is FDA-approved, thank goodness, and is a "natural" substance.

Once you inject your special love button with collagen, you can expect to experience enhanced sexual pleasure for up to four months.

We don't endorse any particular procedure, but some women report more intense pleasure after getting a GSA.

Whether you're having trouble finding your g spot or want to enhance sexual enjoyment, GSA is a reliable option.

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Wondering how to tell your partner you want more g spot love? Here are a few tips to help you broach the topic respectfully and successfully.

1. Choose the Right Time and Setting

Invite your partner to have dinner together and wait for a private moment to discuss the topic. Avoid the topic during sexual contact to reduce the pressure and feel freer to open up about what you want.

2. Be Open and Honest

The best sex is honest sex. Be authentic with what you feel and share your interest in exploring your g-spot together. You could say something like, "I've been reading about the G-spot, and I'm curious to explore it with you."

Get clear about what you want, what you don't like, and why you want to do it together. Chances are your partner will be excited to go on this journey with you.

3. Ask for Their Thoughts and Feelings

Yes, the G-spot is about you, but your partner wants to feel included. Ask them how they feel about exploring with you. Ask them, "What do you think about helping me figure out how to orgasm from my g-spot the next time we're intimate?"

Of course, you know your partner best, so remain respectful of their comfort and readiness. If they are hesitant, reassure them you can take it slowly or revisit the idea later.

The goal here is relaxed fun. Don't put pressure on yourself or your partner to make it happen.

4. Emphasize Mutual Pleasure and Exploration

G-spot exploration is supposed to be fun for both of you. Mutual pleasure and discovering new ways to connect can bring you closer together. Approach the topic from that angle.

Make pleasure, playfulness, and fun the goal; remember that it is more about the journey than the destination.

5. Use Positive and Encouraging Language

Use words like "excited" and "turned on" to set the tone of your conversation. The more into it you are, the more likely your partner is to respond positively.

And don't forget to thank them for their willingness to listen to what you want. Remind them of all the fantastic things they already do in bed and that you can only imagine how good they'll make you feel.

6. Educate Yourselves Together

If you're both uncertain about how to stimulate the g-spot or the best techniques, you can educate yourselves together.

Read up on the topic, send each other articles and videos, and get informed so you'll feel confident when you add it to your routine.

7. Set Clear Boundaries and Communicate During Exploration

Boundaries are critical during sex. Before you start any new sexual adventure, let your partner know what you're comfortable with and ask them their preferences.

As you get down to it, check in with each other frequently, asking, "How does this feel? Should I try a different angle or pressure?"

Use your words to amp up the fun you have together.

8. Be Patient and Adaptable

Whatever you do, don't rush the experience.

Go at your own pace. Tell your partner there is no pressure for a specific outcome. You just want to explore your body together.

Give your partner feedback and be flexible when they ask questions.

The more relaxed you both feel, the better the experience will be.

Bonus G-Spot Conversation Starters To Try Out

• "I’ve been curious about exploring the G-spot, and I think it could be a fun experience for both of us. What do you think?”

• “I read that G-spot stimulation can create some leg-shaking orgasms. Want to see if it does?”

We hope this guide was helpful in your quest to find the female g spot and turn your next love-making session into an adventure you won’t soon forget. We’ve covered everything you need to know about the mystical G-spot, from its origin story to tips on how to find and stimulate it the right way.

Whether you’re exploring solo or with a partner, using techniques like the classic “come hither” finger motion and sexual positions like cowgirl can make all the difference in the experience.

But don’t forget, a G-spot vibrator can make your journey even more fun! Check out our g spot vibrators collection to find the perfect toy to enjoy solo or with your partner.

Remember that the journey to your G-spot is a personal one. Not everyone experiences it the same way, and that’s 100% okay! Take your time, use lots of lube, and most importantly, have fun! Your sensational G-spot orgasm awaits!